Women need to support women

I've been thinking a lot recently about all the things that have been happening associated with women. Unfortunately, the cruelty and harm directed towards women has always been present but it only seems so recent that our voices are getting louder. I know you're probably already thinking of what I'm referencing and yes, I'm talking about Cornell. I can't even put into words how appalled I am over this heartbreaking crime but I feel like it opens the door to a much bigger discussion us ladies need to have. 

For centuries, the patriarchy has literally burned women for being smart, simply not falling in line with religious views, being local healers, or simply lacking male protection. Our brains have even been wired to internalize our own misogynies against other women. I'm sick and tired of seeing other women, no matter the color or race, being treated like we're some piece of meat. We ALL deserve respect and spaces for us to be listened to. We women are so much more than what we have been conditioned to believe. We are scientists, astronauts, nurses, doctors, life providers, lawyers, bosses, and so much more. 

I bring this conversation up because I truly believe that once we understand our own internalized misogyny and start supporting other women, we will make progress. The woman who you pass on the street probably shares the same inspirations and dreams as you, she definitely works as hard as you and yet, still can't seem to climb up the ladder because the patriarchy keeps pulling it from her. We are all the same and all unique in our own and beautiful ways. We are warriors whose bodies go through this incredible cycle of hormones every month, we ARE mother nature. When we have kids, (which growing a child in our bodies is so amazing in itself) our bodies literally produce milk according to the babies needs, that is so beautiful. And even after women give birth and experience a crazy drop in hormones, we're expected to get right back up and head to work after a certain period of time even though our minds, bodies, and spirits are completely different than they were before. And guess what, we do it anyways. We do it because we are strong, resilient, and we are WOMEN. Not to mention, women's intuitions and connection with energy are so strong that we can tell something isn't right moments before anything even happens. Hence, why we make the best witches ;)

We need to never stop talking about this, it can't just be a 'phase' and then we forget about it in a couple of months. NO. We need to hold men accountable, talk to friends and family, educate people, visit historical places, read, read, read. Because once you start, you only become more educated and notice the patterns put into place. If you live close by the Salem Massachusetts, I beg you to please visit this year. It will be the 500th year anniversary of the witch trials and the injustices made against women at that time and visiting is not only great for this time of year, but it'll connect you more to our history. If you can't go, I highly suggest reading about it, your jaw will literally drop from how crazy it is. 

With all of this being said, I'm so amazed by all of what women in the past and present have accomplished and fought for. I love my girls, I love everyone who took the time to read this and hopefully shared the same feelings I felt writing this. I'm very proud to call myself a woman and you should be too. 

happy autumn!

 Happy Autumn Equinox from the one and only Sugar Moon Blog! I hope everyone is enjoying their beginning of fall and taking in the cool weather (if its near you). I'm so very lucky that it's going to be quite a chilly week, in the 60s which is crazy! We are very lucky to have the Harvest Moon only a few days after the equinox which makes the full moon even more special. 

As we welcome in this new season, we let go of the summer and everything that came with it. We welcome in new beginnings. Take this time to let this season to remind you how helpful and beautiful it is to let go. Enjoy the fall! I don't know about you but every fall I always seem to get too lazy and end up saying, "I'll just do everything next year" but not this time! With that being said, go on those fall walks, go to a local library, have that pumpkin spice latte you've been craving, and enjoy what mother nature has to give to us. 

Definitely get those cutesie fall outfits ready to be worn and give Trader Joe's a visit as you know they always have the best things for Autumn! I actually went on a fall outfit shopping trip, I spent well over the amount I wanted to spend lol but I got so many goodies. I seriously cannot wait to wear all the clothes I got!! I'll 100% be showing you guys, ofc!

-A

New nails!

 As stated in my previous post, I had a nail appointment today! I wasn't sure on if I should've done one solid color or a design, buttt I went with design lol. I wanted something small and cute for the beginning of autumn as my October set will be more halloweenie. My nails were so long yesterday omg and typing was getting so frustrating! So this set is a lot shorter than I usually go but I love it! I'm so happy I decided to choose shorter, it feels like I can breathe haha. 

Obviously I couldn't talk about my nails without showing you guys a picture!

Here they are!! When I saw this design on pinterest I HAD to get it. I love that it's not too much and you can obviously tell that it's an apple. The nail lady was so helpful and really trying to make sure I was getting what I was showing her. She even tested out colors for me which I'm so grateful for. I feel like I always have to hype myself up to ask for something if I don't like it. I just don't want to come across as rude or annoying. But recently I have gotten better at asking for things and making sure it's what I'm looking for. 

Fortunately this time, the lady really didn't mind and she honestly seemed just as motivated as I was to find the right colors. Anyways, this set is perfect for September and I'm so happy with the result!!

- A

Nonna's Girl

As I have a nail appointment coming up tomorrow, I thought today would be a great day to tell you guys about my wonderful grandma. Now, you're probably wondering what my nails have to do with my Nonna but if you knew her like how I did, one of the first things that will come to your head are her gorgeous nails. 

My Nonna had the longest nails ever and as a kid, I was truly a chronic nail biter. I mean, biting my nails until I hit the nail bed bad. So, growing up I wanted nothing more than to have long nails just like her. She'd bring me to nail appointments almost all the time to get our mani pedis together and then a classic Walmart run right after. We could've shopped for hours in the clothing section and jewelry section and do it all again the next day. 

As I'm typing this now, my nails are just as long as my Nonna's and my style is almost as good as hers. She really knew how to put together an outfit with an adorable newsboy hat just to put in a pair of earrings to bring it all together. Now that I'm older, I'm very grateful to wear her pairs of earrings along with bracelets that have charms for all of her grandkids. It's a nice daily reminder that she never went a day without loving her family. 

I know if she were here right now, seeing how consistent I am with my nail appointments and how long my nails are, she'd be so proud of me. And that in itself is more than enough for me to carry her with me through my day to days. I love nothing more than to look down at my fingers and for the first thought to be about her. 

I hope those of you who are reading this, whose grandparents are still walking this earth, hug them tight and go on those trips to see them because those are really the moments that you will be grateful for. No matter how much you might put it off, because I know I did as I got older, it's always so worth it in the end and you'll thank yourself forever. 

- A